Couples Counseling
Anywhere in Texas
Delee D’Arcy
“You’re going to be swiping right on your own partner. ”
Delee D’Arcy
“I’m going to help remind you of what made you fall in love, and remind you of when you were dating….and then we are going to dig into why the hell you stopped trying to impress that other person?”
Deep in your bones, exhausting.
You look over at your partner and think “How did we get here?”
You’ve got your ‘jamas on for the night…nevermind the fact that it’s only 7:05 pm, and you’re both mindlessly scrolling on your phones - completely checked out.
And this was after a little bickering in the kitchen and a couple questions of:
“How was your day?”
“Fine. How was yours?”
“Good, exhausting.”
And that’s about it. You’re in a rut of disconnect, of the “blahs”, and missing that fire and spark that you both started with.
The jobs, maybe the kids, the health struggles…
…the same ol’ same ol’, and the day-to-day grind have worn on the relationship.
It’s normal. It’s natural for this to happen. And at the same time…
It really really sucks.
You miss that spark, that zest, and that life that was once there between the two of you.
And man that was fun! That was it.
And you’ve been wanting it back. You’ve been trying to get it back.
You’ve done the question cards, you’ve done the 5 Love Languages, you’ve maybe even read a couples book together, or tried some Kama Sutra to bring the sexual zest back…
…but that fire just won’t ignite.
Swiping right on your own partner.
What if instead of feeling like two icebergs, drifting away in frigid waters…
…you actually felt some warmth between the two of you and that anger, that resentment, that disconnect, actually started to melt.
You actually talk, and share, and laugh over dinner out together. You actually hear each other about your days, you ask the questions, you learn about and understand your partner…
..and you feel that from them too. Holy sh*t! Who knew this could be a thing, right?
And what if you actually brought back allllll those fun, zesty, fiery feelings back from when you first started dating your partner? And you both remember why you fell in love in the first place?
You’ll feel like you’re swiping right on your own partner.
You’ll have to dig in.
So how do you light that fire again? Ohhhh just a few couples counseling sessions will do the trick!
And I’m not trying to make it sound easy or like a magic wand by any means.
You’ll have to do the work. You’ll have to dig in and start talking, start feeling, start sharing, organizing, finding different ways of doing life together.
And it can be everything to your relationship.
Phase 1
Why did you fall in love with your partner? Reminders of why you started dating in the first place? Falling in love with your partner all over again is our goal here!
Phase 2
Ummm….why the hell did you stop trying to impress your partner? Gain an understanding of what’s causing the wall, the disconnect, the ice between the two of you.
Phase 3
This is my favorite part - all the best methods and action steps to start dating your partner again, to reconnect, to melt what’s between the two of you. Hands on steps that get your relationship results.
